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Inner Critic

August 5, 2021 By Paul Boehnke Leave a Comment

Overcoming Performance Anxiety

Musicians, dancers, performers of all types know the signs: dry mouth, sweaty hands, butterflies in the stomach, racing heartbeat, trembling, shallow breathing, tense muscles, tenacious worry, agitation, restlessness. These are all familiar experiences for those with performance anxiety. We’re fine …

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December 3, 2020 By Paul Boehnke Leave a Comment

Life Lesson: Lessons From The Stage

harpsichord keyboard

Before becoming a coach I spent many years as a classical musician. I loved it, but playing an instrument is a complicated affair. There’s the physical aspect of teaching your body to do what needs to be done and then to get those actions to become automatic. That’s why musicians practice scales so …

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September 1, 2019 By Paul Boehnke Leave a Comment

How to Turn Your Inner Critic Into Your Inner Cheerleader

Part 2

Last month I wrote about the 4 steps to get your inner critic to be your inner cheerleader. As a review: Step 1: Create a bit of space or separation between the inner critic and the Self. Step 2: Build a better relationship between the inner critic and the Self. Step 3: Find a new, supportive …

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